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     Beth El Congregation                      Harrisonburg, VA                                 January  2005 

 
 

 

 

 


From the Rabbi’s Desk

 

My dear fellow Valley Jews and friends,

 

I hope that you had a wonderful Chanukah and winter break, filled with food, fun, and family — steeped in love, blessings, and lots of everything that is good. It is my hope that the festival of lights filled you and your world with the light of many blessings.

The Calendar and Holidays: The secular year has turned to 2005 C.E. (Common Era). Of course, for the Jewish calendar, it remains 5765 until we reach Rosh Hashanah.

The month of Kislev has merged into Tevet. Rosh Chodesh for the new month of Tevet began the evening of Dec. 12.

The most noteworthy date in Tevet is the Ta’anit Asarah Be’Tevet, the Fast of the tenth of Tevet. This fast day commemorates the imposition of the siege of Jerusalem in 586 B.C.E. We commemorated this sad event in Jewish history this year on Dec. 22, and it leads in a few months up to the commemoration of the destruction of the Temple, observed on Tisha Be’Av (the ninth day of the month of Av), considered by many to be the saddest day of the Jewish year.

Rosh Chodesh for the new month of Shevat will fall this year on Jan. 11. You probably recall that the holiday of Tu Bi’Shevat (‘15 in Shevat’) falls on the fifteenth day of this month.

A word on ‘TU.’ In Jewish practice, we generally count using letters as values and markers. The system is alef=1, bet=2, gimel=3, daled=4, hay=5, vav=6,zion=7, chet=8, tet=9, yud=10, chof=20,

 

 

Adult Education Discussion at Temple Beth El

 

“The Religious Right In the Shenandoah Valley”

 

Guest Speaker

 

Chris Robinson

Sociologist, James Madison University

Advocate for Human Rights                                                                                                       

 

Sunday, January 30, at 7 p.m.

 

Coffee and dessert will be served.

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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lamed=30, mem=40, nun=50, samech=60, ayin=70, pay=80, tzadee=90, kuf=100, resh=200, shin=300, tav=400. For those numbers between, we form them from largest to smallest, so 11=yud-alef, 22=chof-bet, 135=kuf-lamed-hay, and so on.

To represent the year 5765, for example, we assume you will know which millenium you are talking about (most of us will not live long enough to be confused by dealing with spanning three thousand years!), so we identify the current year as tav-shin-nun-hay (400+300+60+5=765). Some pronounce the letters as a word, so this year is sometimes called ‘Tashnah.’ Others have the practice of finding phrases for which this is an acronym, which leads into the ‘game’ of Gematria, or numerology, equating or relating words with similar numerical values. Often there are many such phrases that can be formed from an acronym, so one can select among them, depending on their feelings and thoughts at the moment, or make a connection among them to seek a message! This can sometimes be an interesting diversion in an idle moment.

For the holiday of Tu Bi’Shevat, “Tu” is denoted as Tet-vav, or nine + six, for 15. You might ask, “why isn’t it yud-hay,” which is more in keeping with what I said about how we form the numeric values. Good question!

It turns out that the Yud-hay formulation is viewed as a representation of a name for G-d. It is, after all, half of the tetragrammaton (the four letter name of G-d, Yud-Hay-Vav-Hay), which we don’t pronounce, and we use it in the phrase Halellu-Yah (Praise Yah!). In its stead we substitute the term ‘Adonay,’ which means ‘my lord,’ ‘my sir,’ or ‘my master.’ As a recollection of the commandment not to take the name of G-d in vain, we do not use this shortened, familiar name to mark a day of the month, and instead, substitute ‘tet-vav’ for ‘yud-hay’! So we have on the calendar the holiday of ‘Tu Bi’Shevat,’ not ‘Yah Be’Shevat!’

So after all that, what is Tu Bi’Shevat? The easiest way to describe it is to say it is the ‘Jewish arbor day,’ but of course, that is not really true. It turns out that there are a series of mitzvot (commandments) regarding the taking of produce of plants, such as the fruit of trees. Among these mitzvot is the mitzvah concerning leaving the tree to grow and become firmly established before harvesting the fruit. It seems to me to make sense from both a practical standpoint and as an expression of respect for all living things to allow the root system of the tree to become strong enough to support the tree and to nourish it as it produces fruit. The rabbis felt that it would take a tree at least four years to create a strong enough root system to sustain a commercial harvest, so they ruled that one was not permitted to sell the fruit of a tree until it had passed it’s fourth ‘birthday.’ Unfortunately, most trees don’t come with birth certificates! To establish a way to count, the rabbis decided that it would make sense to set a marker day to count. They picked the fifteenth of Shevat because in Israel that is when the sap is thought to begin to rise in the Almond trees (the first to blossom), and the rabbis established the holiday of Tu Bi’Shevat, the fifteenth day of Shevat, as the ‘birthday’ or ‘new year’ of the trees. It is the latter that leads us to call the day Rosh Hashanah L’Ilanot (New Year for the Trees).

The Kabbalists of Tsefat (the mystics of Safed) viewed this holiday as both a practical agricultural marker date and as a mystical event, with the tree symbolizing Torah (tree of life), the connection of heaven and earth, and recalling the garden of Eden. Today, as the Kabbalists did, we celebrate the bounty and beauty of trees on that day with the Tu Bi’Shevat seder (order, the ritual meal similar to that at Passover) at which we partake for the first time in that year of the fruits of trees such as carobs, nuts, apples, and many other delicious and wonderful products.

This year Tu Bi’Shevat falls on Jan. 25. We will celebrate it at Beth El, at THOI, and also in the Religious School. I hope you will join me at one of these times in celebrating this delicious and meaningful acknowledgement of the bounty of trees and the deeper significance of our reliance on the wonders of nature for sustenance and survival.

Rabbi Joe Blair

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Beth El Congregation                               January 2005

Sunday

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Saturday

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Winter Break,

No Religious School.

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Rabbi's office day, 11 to 7.

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Sisterhood meeting and “Learn to Knit,” 6 p.m.

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Adult Ed Torah Study, 6 p.m.

Rabbi Service, 7:30.

Rabbi's office day, 10 to 5.

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9

Religious School, 9:30-12:30.          Bagel Bar, 9-11:30.

Book Club, Stolen Lives, 9 a.m.

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Rabbi's office day, 11 to 7.

Board Meeting, Temple, 7:30.

11

Men’s Club,

Dave’s Downtown Taverna, 6:30.

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14

Lay Service,

7:30 p.m.

Rabbi's office day, 10 to 5.

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16

Religious School, 9:30-12:30.           Bagel Bar, 9-11:30.

Lecture Series, Life After Death, 7 p.m.

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Rabbi's office day, 11 to 7.

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Youth Group Service, 7:30 p.m.

Ski Weekend.

Rabbi's office day, 10 to 5.

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Religious School, 9:30-12:30.           Bagel Bar, 9-11:30.

 

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Rabbi's office day, 11 to 7.

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Tu b’Shvat Seder, 6 p.m.

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28

Lay Service,

7:30 p.m.

Rabbi's office day, 10 to 5.

 

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Religious School, 9:30-12:30.           Bagel Bar, 9-11:30. Adult Ed, Religious Right…, 7 p.m.

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Rabbi's office day, 11 to 7.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

News and Notes


 


Rabbi’s Office Hours

Rabbi Joe’s office hours in Harrisonburg are Mondays, 11 to 7, and Fridays, 10 to 5.

Please call ahead (434-2744) or email for an appointment: RabbiJoeB@hotmail.com.

 

Men’s Club

Come and join the Men's Club at Dave's Downtown Taverna, on Tuesday, Jan. 11. We'll be there from 6:30 to about 8 p.m.

Enjoy some great food and learn about opportunities to get involved with us in 2005. If you have never been to a Men's Club meeting before we'd love to meet you!

Also, we are seeking volunteers to help prepare a spaghetti dinner for the youth on Jan. 21.

 

Book Club

Come join the Book Club Sunday, Jan. 9, at 9 a.m., when we will be reviewing Stolen Lives, by Malika Oufkir and Michele Fitoussi. This is a true story, written by a woman imprisoned along with her mother and five siblings in a desert jail for two decades after her father was killed. The book is an incredible documentation of survival.

 

Please Pick Up Your ‘Stuff’

When the spirit moves you to put “stuff” down on the display cases in the social hall — please resist the impulse. It’s unsightly, and someone has to try to figure out to whom things belong and what should be trashed. Horizontal surfaces are very tempting, but please don’t cover them up.        — Thanks, Janet.


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A Report on the 2004 MAC Biennial

I am preparing this report on the 2004 MAC Biennial for two reasons. First, I feel the moral obligation to do so as one of the congregation’s official delegates. Second, Rabbi Lynne Landsberg told me to do so! So, here’s a précis of what happened during an all-too-short weekend in Norfolk in late October.

The theme of the convention was “Opening Doors, Opening Minds,” a minor paraphrase of one of the major URJ initiatives deriving from the inspirational sermon by Rabbi Yoffie at the URJ biennial in Minneapolis in 2003. In addition to renewing old acquaintances and friendship, making new friendships, worshipping with hundreds of other Jews on Shabbat, we heard stirring addresses by eminent clergy and lay leaders of our movement. The list of these people is far too long to include here, and I’ll happily share with anyone who asks the program brochure containing all of their names. Suffice it to say that all of them helped open the doors of my mind to new ideas and new endeavors that we in Harrisonburg can pursue in helping to advance the noble goals of Reform Judaism. However, without question, the most motivating one was Rabbi Landsberg’s Shabbat morning sermon in which she recounted part of her personal journey since the tragic accident that has left her brain-injured and during which she has come to attribute new, even deeper meaning to the word “Hineini.” (This is not why she urged me to prepare this missive!) Because I hope to share the full text of this sermon with you in the near future, I’ll not go beyond what I’ve just said except to note that there was not a dry eye in the congregation during its delivery.

Among the several signal experiences that I had (some shared with Janet) was attending several sessions devoted to the functioning of congregations like ours, i.e., small ones. Some were nuts-and-bolts meetings and others were more “imagination” sessions. Coincident with this I have been serving on the regional committee to plan a spring kallah, devoted exclusively to small congregation concerns. [Our Board has offered Harrisonburg as a site for this gathering, but no decision has been made as of this writing]. Underlying all of this is an attempt by the Mid-Atlantic Council to serve better its small congregations, partly taking over services to us that the national URJ will no longer provide, due to financial exigency.

So as to keep this to readable length, I’ll finish by telling you that my instincts for social activism were re-inspired by many things at the convention. I have eagerly joined the MAC Committee on Social Action under the able leadership of Liz Dunst and the active involvement of Rabbi Landsberg. A breakfast meeting of the three of us leads me to be very optimistic about re-energizing this committee and bringing its good work to the Valley. To coordinate it with whatever the Beth El Social Action committee has in mind, I’ve officially joined our committee too. The potential agenda extends from supporting the URJ Poverty initiative (as we did for Ner Shel Tzedakah by our donations to First Step at the Chanukah dinner) to the crisis in the Sudan to accentuating our dialogue with local non-Jewish congregations and to advocacy on behalf of minority groups whose rights are often in jeopardy right here at home.

I close with two items that I urge you to put on your calendar. The first is the Consultation on Conscience in D.C., March 13-15, 2005. The second is the next MAC Biennial in late October, 2006.

 

L'shalom, Andy

 

 

 

 

The Bridge by Email

Because of the tremendous cost of printing, postage and paper, we have been experimenting with sending the Bridge by email to Beth El members who have Internet access. We have also been mailing printed copies to everyone.

The Beth El Board has decided that, beginning in February, we will mail printed copies only to those who do not have email, and to those who specifically request them. The electronic Bridge will be emailed both as Word and PDF attachments, to make downloading as easy as possible.

We hope that members will elect to use our email approach, and print out the Bridge yourselves. However, those who want a printed copy should let us know by email reply.

We also request that non-members with Internet access send your email address to neckowax@jmu.edu so we can send you the electronic version of the Bridge.

 

 

 

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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Sisterhood Meeting, and ‘Learn to Knit’

 

Thank you to everyone who helped with our annual Chanukah dinner and entertainment. I was unable to attend, but I heard it was a huge success!

Our next meeting will be Thursday, Jan. 6, at 6 p.m., at the Temple. We’ll have lox and bagels for dinner.

FUN — We’ll finish the meeting about 8 p.m., and then all are welcome to join us for hot tea and cocoa and "learn to knit.” What could be more relaxing then hanging out on a cold night drinking tea and learning to knit a warm scarf? Lisa will be our guest instructor. Here is what you need to bring to join us — 2 balls of fluffy or ribbon yarn (the package should say 100 gm., which is about 3-1/2 oz). The wrapper should suggest a needle size — 11, 12, or 13, or 8-9 mm. needles. You can buy the yarn and a pair of needles at Michaels or Walmart. If you have any questions, call Lisa at 34-6515.

Hope to see everyone there!!!

                                                                                         Sherri

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Donations


 

Beth El Congregation gratefully acknowledges the following generous donations, received during December:

 

To the General Fund

 

In honor of the birth of Leah Ruth Greenfield: Arnie Kahn, Ron and Michelle Ornstein.

 

In honor of the birth of Russell Joseph Kramer: Ron and Michelle Ornstein.

 

In memory of Oscar Rodbell, Herb’s brother: Milton Perlman, Ron and Michelle Ornstein.

 

Beth El also received a donation for a memorial plaque for her father, Oscar Rodbell, from Karen Jackson and family.

 

In memory of Jack Stein: Roberta and Gary Stein, with thanks to everyone who made donations in memory of Gary’s father; Ron and Michelle Ornstein.

 

Best wishes and good health for Harry Clayman: Dave and Shirley Merlin, Jerry and Esther Minskoff.

 

 

Congratulations to Maureen Goldberger on receiving her doctorate: Jerry and Esther Minskoff.

 

In honor of Joel and Naomi Ornstein: Margene Ward.

 

To the Building Fund

 

In memory of Oscar Rodbell, Herb’s brother: Franklin Blatt.

 

To the Stained Glass Window Fund

 

In honor of the birth of Leah Ruth Greenfield: Jerry and Esther Minskoff, Bo and Sandi Rose.

 

In memory of Oscar Rodbell: Bary and Ruth Berger.

 

In honor of the birth of Russell Joseph Kramer: Bary and Ruth Berger.

 

In honor of the installation of Elissa Kohen as associate rabbi at Baltimore Hebrew Congregation: Bary and Ruth Berger.


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YAHRZEITS FOR JANUARY


 


  1        Bertha Hammer

Margaret Stein

Isadore Pfeffer

 

  2        Bertha Wise

Samuel R. Clayman

 

  3        Lester Kahn

 

  4        Mary Helbraun

 

  5        Emma Hirsch Isaacs

 

  6        Leopold Wise

Max Hirsch

Elsie K. Cohn

 

  8        Leonard Hirsch

Rosa Isaacs

Lillian Hamburg

 

10         Paul Miller

            Anna Weiss

 

11         Pearl Loewner Gravely

            Isadore Iseman

 

13         Bruno Stein

            Gerald Greenfield

 

14         Rose Levine

15         Hulda Iseman

            Sam Weiss

 

17         Beatrice Winoker

            Marjorie Lichtenstein

 

19         Harry Weiss

 

20         Shirley Baron

            Sophia Wurtzberger

 

23         Beulah (Bootie) Klingstein

 

24         Fannie Wise

            Nathan Gelman

 

26         Leroy Loewner

 

27         Henry Robinson

 

28         Abe B. Zindler, Sr.

            Jay Funston

 

29         William Stein

            Minnie Zindler Finger

 

30         Vera Levine

 

31         Lessie Hirsch Baum

Shirley Saletan Goodman


 

 

Adult Education


 

From Rabbi Joe: We tried something new Nov. 12 at Beth El: we held a Torah study for adults before services on Friday evening, starting at 6 p.m. Those in attendance brought their own meal (drinks were provided) and ate while we discussed the Torah portion for the week. Those who came seemed to enjoy it, so we are planning to repeat it on Jan. 7, and tentatively on Feb. 4, March 18, April 15, and May 9. Mark your calendars! 

Hebrew - Intermediate/Advanced classes will be held in January from 7 to 8:30 pm: Mondays at Beth El, Jan. 17, 24, 31; and Thursdays at THOI, Jan. 6, 13, 20.

The Jewish Lecture Series continues on Sunday evenings from 7 to 8:30, the third Sunday of the month. Come to any or all, and if you have suggestions for topics, please feel free to tell me.

Here is a list of the topics currently planned (subject to change):

 

Jan. 16, at Beth El                  Jewish views on Life after Death.

Feb. 20, at THOI                    Jewish Ethics: End of Life Issues.

March 20, at Beth El              Jewish Lifecycle: Liturgy and Practice.

April 17, at THOI                   Passover: Ritual and Rules.


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A Message from our President

 

Greetings to you all in the secular new year of 2005!

We have just recently concluded the celebration of Chanukah, and I am reminded of a well-known Talmudic argument between two scholars. Hillel and Shammai disagreed about how to light the Chanukah candles. Shammai proposed that we begin lighting all eight candles and reduce one per night. Hillel countered that we should begin with one candle and increase each night, thus adding to holiness, rather than diminishing it. Hillel’s practice was accepted, and so we begin the holiday lighting one candle, and increase by one candle for each of the eight nights. Why, you might ask, is this pertinent now, when Chanukah is over. The question that follows from this argument could be, “How do we increase light and holiness in our lives all during the year — not just on Chanukah?”

The answer, I think, will be somewhat different for each of us. I hope, however, that one common theme in our individual answers will lie in our little community. As we come together on Shabbat, holidays, and study sessions, our combined kavannah (intent) becomes more spiritual (however we may define spirituality). Just by being together in these endeavors we pool our love and caring for Judaism and for each other. In this way we increase the warmth and holiness of our lives. We are together with God, doing God’s holy work.

We have many occasions for worship, study, and camaraderie planned for the coming year. Please help us increase our communal light, warmth, and holiness and join us for as many of these occasions as you can. May you all continue to be blessed with health and sweetness in this new year.

                 Janet

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Youth Group Report

 


We are busy preparing for our annual ski youth service weekend — Jan. 21. We will again be hosting youth groups from Virginia Beach, Newport News, Norfolk, Richmond, Roanoke, and Charlottesville. Last year we hosted 82 youth and are certainly preparing for close to the same.

I will be making phone calls begging for help with housing kids — Friday night only. If you know you can help, please give me a call before I call you!!! Our youth group is planning a great service and program — they are really the best.

On Jan. 7 we are all planning to meet at Beth El to attend services together. We are then going to go Cosmic bowling, followed by a lock-in at the temple. We will work on our service and music and program that night. In the morning we’ll have bagels, and leave for home about 10 a.m. If you have questions call Sherri at 249-5463.

The National Biennial NFTY Convention is this year, Feb. 18 for five days in Los Angeles. We have three youth groupers and myself, planning to attend. The last two conventions in Los Angeles we had teens attend as well.

There will be about 1,500 Jewish teenagers there, and I’ll be attending the Youth Workers Program, which runs concurrent with the teens, The cost per teen is close to $1,000, including airfare.

The youth group will be doing its spaghetti dinner fundraisers this year, as well as other projects to raise money. The teens would gladly accept any donations toward sponsoring them for this fantastic Jewish opportunity.

Thank you to everyone for all of your support to our youth year after year — they are our future! 

 

Sherri Alt, Youth Advisor


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From Our Religious School


Religious school continues to bound along.

Our students were treated to a wonderful Chanukah party, put together by all of the parents from Lexington. At the Beth El Chanukah dinner, a number of the students provided the music for a fun Chanukah skit (complete with puppets). The skit was written and staged by Roberta Stein. Roberta, with able assistance from Jon Meyers, had spent several previous Sunday music sessions teaching students the songs, and rehearsing. We all kvelled, along with the parents of these great students.

Please think about joining us for bagel bar on an occasional Sunday, between 9 and 11 a.m. You'll enjoy seeing the students involved in their religious education.


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Report from the Board

There will be an Adult Ed Torah Study Jan. 7 at 6 p.m. Participants should bring their own brown bag dinner.

Beth El welcomes our new members Dara and Michael Hall, and their children Madeline and Danielle. The Halls' address is 635 Sugar Maple Lane, Harrisonburg, 22801. Phone: 433-5596. Email address: mddmhhall@verizon.net.

The Board regrets to report that the optimism about locating a MAC regional camp in our immediate vicinity (near Bryce) was misplaced. Regrettably, the water on the property will not pass EPA standards for residential use (very high levels of arsenic, probably from pesticide runoff of nearby farmland).

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More News and Notes

 


Get Well Wishes

Get well wishes from the Congregation to Harry Clayman, as he recovers from his recent surgery.

 

Congratulations

Congratulations to Leslie Ney, who recently received an award for “Outstanding Contribution to EMS by a Nurse.” Leslie, a registered nurse in the Emergency Department at RMH, has been a member of the Harrisonburg Rescue Squad since 1975. She is a Nationally Certified Paramedic, teaches Advanced Cardiac Life Support, and serves as a training officer and hospital liaison for the squad.

 

Summer Learning

Union for Reform Judaism — If you’re inter-ested in spending five unforgettable days learning and studying among a vibrant community of committed worshipers, why not investigate the 2005 Summer Kallah?

Scheduled for July 19-24, 2005 at Franklin Pierce College, in Rindge, New Hampshire, the

theme of this year’s Kallah will be Aiyekah — Where are we now? Where are we as Reform Jews and where are we headed? Join us for a unique combination of Jewish learning and spiritual renewal.

For more information, visit the URJ website at www.urj.org/educate/kallah, or contact Joan Glazer Farber at 212-650-4087, educate@urj.org.

 

Consultation on Conscience

Union for Reform Judaism — Anyone interested in finding out how the strengthened Republican majority will affect the issues that shape our lives should attend the Consultation on Conscience, scheduled for March 13-15 at the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism in Washington, D.C.

Participants will hear high-level briefings from key policy and government leaders, explore the connections between ancient Jewish text and current events, and build strong social action and advocacy skills to bring back home.

For more information, visit www.rac.org, or contact the RAC at 202.387.2800, consultation@rac.org.